Archive for February, 2010

holareyna ialah bestie saya yang hilang..

February 28, 2010
i met a bride to be blogger yesterday.. holareyna @ rina maizura, penting sangat sangat sangat jumpa dia.. sebab she is my bestfriend dari sekolah rendah class sebelah2, sekolah menengah (form 1 je) then sampai la 2 minggu yang lepas i accidentally found her blog, memula tak sure betul ke tak sampai terpaksa browse thru her blog archieve searching for more and more of her picture cos she seems skinnier these day, takut salah orang, muka pun dah ada lain sikit2, so masa tu berdoa betul la ni blog rina, then until i saw her father masa her engagement day then i was soo sure of her.. terus email dia, lewat jugak dia reply, hehe.. terharu pulak jumpa masa sama2 dah nak kawin.. okay? masa jumpa blog dia pun mcm nak ternangis sikit..

pasal the lastime we met masa tu form 2, PRACTICALLY ITS LIKE 11 YEARS TAK JUMPA ITU BESTIE!! kisahnya rina masa form 1 bulan 10 she moved to terengganu, dia ni mmg nomad sikit selalu sangat pindah2, dedulu we keep in touch via snail mail, mana ada hp masa tu, email pun bukan ada sgt, mmg antar surat, sekali tulis panjang2, hehe.. then masa form 2, masa cuti sekolah ayah dia datang keja kat kl, jadi rina ikut sekali, tido rumah saya beberapa hari, spent time sama2, then we went jalan2 kat kl, shopping2 sikit (masa form 2 mana ada duit sangat kan, lol) shopping sampai negative la duit ayah dia bekal, kelakar je kalau ingat balik, then we went aishah’s open house, masa tu raya kot.. then ada satu pic amik masa dia dtg.. pic tu satu je that i have to remind me of her.. then sampai la terjumpa blog dia balik secara eksiden.. omg! sangat2 happy..

so first time jumpa balik yesterday kitorang pegi jalan tar, shes getting married in june, saya july.. jadi banyaklah dia nak beli, tambah2 sekarang rina dekat klang n parents permanently kat kelantan, jadi dia kene beli semua barang sebelum balik sana, so we went jakel beli kain for her mother and father, then beli kipas bulu warna putih, cantek! then beli bunga telur cantik.. she bought the one that i heart soo much.. and ofcos bila dia tengok pun she heart it too.. 😉 excited sangat nak beli barang2 dia pasal she have a long list, then hujan lebat so ada beberapa jugak yg tak sempat, bila ujan lebat we stop at nagoya and lepak kat dalam.. then we went back to my place, dejavu sgt, and sampai rumah i told mak kat dapur, ini rina ingat lagi tak dulu dia duk sini bla bla bla, even her bro is my bro bestie.. then pray, pastu lepak lagi browse thru websites tgk kad kawin for her, then pas semayang maghrib, makan dinner then dia balik klang.. sure penat gila but happy sangat meeting someone yang sangat close dgn kita, then lama hilang then jumpa balik..

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♥ bila berdarah manis..

February 27, 2010
im reading ann’s entry pasal darah manis, omg! sila baca sila baca entry ann, her experience is terrifying.. sungguh sungguh ngeri, kalau for me pun sangat cemas, and correct i tot ash would be worry to let her go to somewhere like that.. and when ash was afraid of her safety ash pulak yg kena, kalau saya pun saya risau ann, hehe.. and bila baca entry ann i remember my darah manis experience pulak, hehe.. lepas2 bertunang tu saya telah terjatuh tangga, ada la 2 sehingga 3 kali terjatuh tangga.. sampai naik lebam biru biru kaki plus bengkak besar lagi, 1 pakej amat hebat.. lain kali cuba lagi..

pertama kali jatuh, nasib baik dah separuh set tangga tu jatuh kebetulan student sempat grab tangan, ya Allah kalau dia takde tak tahu lah mcm mana, the second time jatuh sampai half juga la set tangga tu, nasib sempat pegang rail tangga so tak terus sampai bawah, masa ni jatuh pulak kene tempat yang sama, yang tengah bengkak gila tu, meleleh air mata tahan sakit, the third time, jatuh, almost terus jatuh tp sempat balance.. merisaukan merisaukan.. ni sume tangga kat opis, memang tangga betul lah, tapi puaka puaka pun pas saya tunang, dulu dia suci je, hehe.. the first time jatuh tu pas masuk office terus sms adlie, sedih betul, then petang itu dia datang mengambil di opis, melahap subway, dia belanja pasal saya jatuh tangga, haha, pasni ari2 buat jatuh tangga pasti dapat makan mcm2.. tp masa jatuh tu menangis sebak jugaklah sebab jatuh mcm tu, sakit gila, terkejut, mcm2..

gila kan, im not sure why this thing happen, kuat berangan ke, stress sangat ke sampai dah takleh handle itu tangga, tapi tulah darah manis kot, haha balik2 alasan darah manis, but chamiz rakan sekerja saya pun geleng2 kepala risau, kata dia darah manis ni.. and lain org lain dugaan berdarah manis, nawal pulak.. dugaan dia sangat hebat, dari segi lain la pun, but she manage to handle it well, with the support from the other three angelic blogger u know who, hehe.. yang2 lain silalah share dugaan darah manis anda.. 😉

org tua2 pun selalu remind, tolong sangat2 take care especially dalam hari2 nak berkahwin, lagi dekat lagi mcm2 boleh jadi, kdg2 tak faham, sampai lah kene kat diri sendiri, so i guess yelah, kene jaga diri masing2..

butterlyminitak sanggup jatuh tangga lagi..

♥ slow progress on wedding dress..

February 24, 2010
sebenarnya i havent yet decided on my wedding dress, since there will be only 1reception i need to make sure i have it beautiful (atleast for my own eyes and my own body and approve by adlie) i am actually torn between 2 kinda design, masanya lagi 5 bulan, and i am freaking scared, unsure between designs is one thing, not able to locate any tailor is such a loser, saya – being fussy bertempat, not so logic expensive tag for renting existing bajus bajus kat bridal, cant meet the super expensive quote given to us for tailoring, thus in the end finding the pros and cons of renting one or tailoring one, yang satu perkara ini really gave me a headache, the rest of preps for wedding is good so far.. my dugaan comes at this point of time..

anyway im meeting kak s, her place is in tropicana only after 8th of march, (yaya im going, cubalah kan) via few smses she assure me ampleeeee time to finish up the dress, she is good at doing both design that i asked her yesterday, for one that i love but dont have the courage to wear one, she said this, when u come i ll show u few design then u can proceed buying the material, i was like fuhhh, harap2 inilah jodoh saya untuk buat baju sanding, and its by recommendation from the super fussy kakak besar, if stuff are good with her it will by god willing turn good for me.. saya percaya kakak besar, yay!

i do not fancy a wedding dress that scream, i would prefer one that whisper softly.. 😉

butterlymini when u need help i am there to help, ill suggest and explain stuff like my very own, but when it is my turn, u didnt give a damn, u know u have got urs, whats up with other people.. well thats life..

♥ ansuran/installment..

February 22, 2010
so far we have paid half of the agreed fee for 1) photographer for nikah and sanding, 2) pelamin nikah+pelamin dewan+deco dewan and 3) sudah habis bayar bekas favor telor.. ini yg agak besar la for us..

pasal saya pun takde banyak saving, adlie need to pay for hantaran, plus belanja his side lagi.. yg dah bayar pun kat atas baru half.. pening dibuatnya nak bayar the rest of it.. but atleast the burden is trimmed lil bit and manageable towards the big day.. and soon caterer, half payment to be paid by middle of end of March (must do) and bajus bajus for sanding still dalam pencarian.. yang besar2 hampir sudah.. so now i need to worry bout baju and yg ntah ape2 yang lain lain kecik2..

disclaimer : cuma nak berkongsi, takde niat lain.. ive been meaning to write about installment or ansuran.. most of vendors that we (saya dan adlie) have met before hampir semuanya boleh buat installment, regardless vendor with big name or small name, sangat extreme where u can actually engage a monthly installment, they accept small amount, sampailah habis byr, sofar yg penah jumpa famous photographer, pelamin and deco, designer pengantin dress and attire, almost semualah.. mereka ada yg memahami, bukan semua org mampu, tak semua org boleh afford big name vendor, jadi mereka sendiri yg suggest u buat installment, agaknya dah kesian tgk, hehe.. tho ada instalment package from designer saya masih tak amik, sb tak mampu, but yes we did this method, installment, pasal mmg kitorang tak boleh bayar sekaligus, we stagger the payment, dan it turn nicely.. sebab boleh manage duit tu elok2..

so let say my dear silent reader, yang baru planning2, say u have a year ke, one and half year this is the perfect time to start listing down ur dream vendor, its never to early to start, go meet them, kalau dah tersuka sangat but agak2 takleh nak bayar segedebuk, arrange for installment and this kinda method is applicable when ure planning to engage BIG & HUGE name with an EXPENSIVE TAG.. say u wanted to settle down with oh soo famous and brilliant photographer but the cost is to much to bear.. sometimes kita boleh adakan budget for that when we have ample time, cuma bila plan lambat all the amount sum for everything become soo overwhelms. ofcos they will cost u a fortune but via installment ull splurge with it in the end.. pasti suka kan.. and if really ure going for installment make sure u have with u the receipt, keep it safe incase anything happen soon u have the proof.. keep in touch..

semua org nak the best vendor, sometimes kita rasa kita tak ada budget so on so forth, but i believe once u started the listing and have the actual meeting with vendor u can actually have them for your wedding.. so hope this helps, i have silent readers which i dont actually know how to help them rather than displaying all my preps and such.. =)

satu benda lagi, jangan kisah kalau diri sendiri bayar ke your mak bapak bayar ke, if u paid everything urself sangat sangat bagus, alhamdulillah tak menyusahkan parents, malah membahagiakan diorang lagi kan, =) but dont ever start to hear what people say, kalau dengar buat bernanah telinga je, kalau mak bapak choose to bayar all or some or camnelah its okay cos they love you, they wanna help you and wanted the best for your wedding, kalau ada anak nanti pasti u guys do the same kan? whatever the arrangement is all yours, our life is not the same, some parents afford to spent gazalion tremendously for u, some will help u partially as much as they can, some are not at all but they re ur backbone, they always support you (most important), shower you with love, jadi bersyukur & bersyukurlah dengan apa yg kita ada.. bahagian masing masing, be happy with what we have and be happy for people around us.. insya Allah ull feel content..

butterlymini theres always a way for everything that we want, if we are meant to have it we will have it.. if not we may have sometimes else greater later.. =)

♥ Kem’s Wedding

February 21, 2010
sabtu we went to kem’s wedding, adlies former colleague.. kat bukit bandaraya shah alam, sangat dekat dengan bukit cerakah, oh sure boleh outdoor kat sana kan, panas begitu terik, sangat sangat terik, masa mula2 sampai no music whatsoever was played, senyap, no sound of dj.. rasa lain pulak.. hehe, but later on baru ada.. food is yummy, forgot to snap the gambar.. ada ayam goreng rempah n bijan, butter prawn, daging, dalca, acar buah..
the sweet pelamin..
bunga dia ada harum sundal malam, i love harum sundal malam.. harum sundal malam yang ditanam oleh saya tak pulak kuar bunga, tensi betul..

pengantin manis, masa ni panas gila okay

petals ditabur.. and itu bunga pahar..

mari tgk dekat sikit, bunga pahar dia lawa! size besar besar! and yang penting ape dia? sarung telur dia LACE! color pun pale, soft and shimmer.. i like!
habis close up dah ni, sampai nak terduduk la amik pic ni, pasal org tengah berkerumun kat pelamin, time sanding kan, eh nampak tak lynda? cantek kan? sangat heart! ingat nak pegi merenjis, sure dapat 1 kan, semata2, hehe.. gile..
the door gift, mine yg terkotor kene kuah tu, pastu tertinggal dalam keta adlie, sebal bangat gue! hehe, di dalam bukan telur, ialah choc.. dah la tertinggal, choc lak tu 😦 and famili depan itu ialah kak pah, colleague adlie juga, sangat soft and sweet je kak pah ni.. =)

butterlyminipink hot to go for the year 2010..

♥ untuk Zaheera…

February 21, 2010
one of bestfriend masa sekolah dulu are getting married in June, her name is zaheera.. all this time we do exchange some stories la concerns la, mcm2 la.. and she said she wanted to buy the bekas telur to be given to in law families yg bertandang nanti, so saya pun kata let me buy for her cos im buying the same favor and ada discount 30sen.. so she said okay to it and yesterday selepas pulang dari bukit bandaraya, shah alam kitorang pun singgah kk home deco sri rampai, belikan zaheera 100 pieces, and upon buying they will inspect the bekas telur whether ok ke tak, adoi lama la pulak.. hehe.. then habis check, bayar.. siap, will wait for her to come and pick up next week as shes in melaka right now..

butterlyminimy favor can be collected only one month before the wedding day, pasal engrave our name dalam tu, ive inform the staff i need time to tie the ribbons, and kalau lambat aku suruh dia yg ikat!

♥ photographer for khatam quran…

February 20, 2010
source : syokkahwin
saya perlu photographer for majlis khatam quran yg akan dibuat sangat sangat simple. 30 julai, hari jumaat. saya tak ambil dgn op for my wedding. saya mahu different touch dan kalau boleh perempuan. okay okay saya ada seorang cousin yg memang keje ambil gambar org. tapi im not sure whether he gonna be available for the majlis. or even on my wedding. cos his wife are scheduled to deliver their baby 2 weeks mcm tu before my wedding. pastu jumaat dia keje. jadi to be safe saya sudah email satu photographer. haha satu je pun. cos harga dia yang kedengaran dari bride to be yg lain nampak okay. hope she will quote me the same. lagipun i dont have soo much budget to splurge on that area. hope she gonna make it affordable for me. and if la kan i cant meet her quotation ill search some more. yeah my max is definitely my max.
butterlyminicant wait.. angah gonna be there reciting quran together with me.. 😉

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♥ durian and work on things fast..

February 18, 2010
ini entry tiba tiba. haha. i suka gila durian. nasib adlie pun suka. so takde la nanti gadoh gadoh kalau nak makan durian. pasal ada org tak bape suka sangat makan durian malah bau pun tak berapa boleh. kan kan? durian adalah soo yummeh. entry ringan hari ni. semalam dah bg heavy gile kan. kang terjeluak muntah baca banyak banyak. hehe. tapi nak add lagi. pegi lah buat hiv test as long as within 6 month or according to ur pejabat agama requirement. can proceed one even sooo super duper early. personally for me i dont want to take leave lagi unless for submission of forms later. adlie will be very bz bz. so buat saje bukan rugi pon btw. lagipun minggu ni still cuti so settle ape yg patut. for us la.

saya harap once sudah hit 3 months before kami nak cepat2 settle the submission for all the form and legal stuff. cos i wanna have my nikah slot at my own preference. risau kalau tak dapat. wanna book kadi as early as possible to avoid dissapointment. insya Allah kalau buat submission awal. jumpa kadi awal. slot nikah ada harapan tak clash dengan org lain. kadi boleh adjust the timing accordingly kalau ure the first one to apply right? bukan la nak exaggerated sangat tapi anything sume pun tak akan rugi pun kalau buat awal.

butterlymini i dont have anything to say, blank gila.. blogger block, hehe banyaklah..

♥ HIV & CBC test

February 17, 2010
update : wilayah persekutuan kuala lumpur and putrajaya valid hiv test 6 bulan dari tarikh ujian saringan di buat, state lain do check, source : elfazira first thing wat apt, call kk, tak perlu bawa apa apa docs, cuma bawa ic sahaja untuk register, borang ada disediakan di kk, bayaran ialah myr1 sahaja, thalasemia test tak wajib, terpulang masing2, lebih baik buat, untuk kepastian, tapi thalasemia test cuma available kat gh, klinik kesihatan cuma cbc test, kalau unusual count baru dia refer to gh.. cbc test u need to check with the misi and doc kat kk, masa register kat kaunter make sure u highlight to them u nak buat hiv test + cbc test for thalasemia, then after hiv test lepas dia bg result, tell them again u nak buat cbc test and they will advise u accordingly, insist if possible sebab kdg2 yg entertain u org lain2.. kene pandai layan diri sendiri uruskan sume, kalau kene bg borang kat lain2 bilik pegi je bagi, kalau tunggu misi layan mmg takdelah cos they are all too busy..

contoh soalan on hiv ada kat bawah, its just a very general question, kalau salah dia takde la tak bagi test cuma cam tak best kan kalau salah? hehe.. pastu sometimes as per my friend experience they wont discuss with u the outcome of the test, whether 1 line 2 line, reactive non reactive ke kan, jangan risau, kalau dia bagi envelope suh korang bg kat pej agama itu maksudnya korang takde hiv okeh? jangan nak saiko sangat.. kitorang pun mcm saiko gak even depan mata 1 line n tau takde hiv, biasa lah tu kan? hehe.. okay thats all u all.. harap membantu la ye?

yesterday i woke up and check jam, sudah jam 8.02 pagi lah, immediately grab my hp and dial nombor talipon klinik kesihatan setapak, so i asked them if i wanna do hiv test whether i need to do apt, they said yes, so cepat2 i gave details, mine and adlie and she ask when i wanna come, she said today? hah kalau today mmg niat kitorang dah tu, so the time is from 2-4pm, yay! sms adlie bgtau apt dah dapat.. my second time pegi kk setapak, my first is in 2006 kot, when i was not well and cannot attend the final exam, so kene amik mc kerajaan, either gh or kk, so went to kk, then later i was given a referal exam.. 😉
the klinik

saya mmg excited semalam sebab suka darah darah ni, previously 2x admitted so im looking forward for a blood scene.. hehe..

the borangs

adlie pick me up at 130pm, 15 minutes dah sampai sana and queue.. boleh queue tetengah panas, terpaksa la kan.. pastu amik nombor, then bgtau nak buat hiv test, the counter give us form to fill in, we fill up kat pharmacy counter since the place is soo crowded.. then pass the form to the counter and they call for for payment sebanyak myr1 then they ask us to go straight to bilik 8, tips : u dont have to wait for ur number to be called, pass the form back to them, xpyh line up, wat mcm klinik sendiri, and once they settle with us the payment we can just go straight for testing.. so terus we passed the form kat bilik test and we waited there for a while since they need to settle few regular patient.. tak lama semakin ada couple dtg buat hiv juga.. masa lihat buku apt ramai juga, ada la 10 org kot wat apt.. ke mmg quota, nama kitorang cam num 5 6 camtu kat log book.. naseb ada lg 0..

the bilik

then they call me first, yay! so biasalah as i read everywhere else bride to be yg pegi hiv test for sure ada general question asked kan, so do kami.. so this is the easy peasy questions:

1) what is HIV, korang jawab jelah HIV is a virus that caused AIDS, takde masa nak cite panjang lebar pun kan.. hehe

2) how isit transmitted to others ni dia akan tanya kita, thru unprotected sex boleh? thru breastfeeding boleh? thru kissing and cuddling boleh? thru transplant boleh? thru saliva boleh? kalau HIV boleh kawin? so jawablah seadanya boleh ke tak

3) kalau anda boleh jawab semua soalan yg ditanya tentang HIV dari definition sampai semualah dia akan kata bravo bravo..
5) dia tanya lagi kawin kali keberapa? sila jawab 1 2 3 atau 4
6) tanya lagi kerja mana? jawab pekerjaan anda
7) then they will cucuk ur middle finger, sikit je cucuk, tak sakit & dia bagi amaran berupa saya cucuk ye cik? kang terus cucuk tetiba ada yg kena tendang, lol..
8) then dia letak darah tu kat test kit itu
9) they will explain the lines, what isit with the appearence of 1 line, 2 lines or no line
10) lastly sila amik gambar kalau mahu, secepat mungkin, takkan dimarahi malah dia pelik kenapakah kau mahu amik gambar benda ini?

the hiv test result

adlie boleh dgr sound saya snap2 dari luar, hehe, masuk sorang2, next adlie, tet failed! failed! dia punya darah berupa dot dot dot dot blogspot, hehe, nape dot dot.. tapiiiii negative okay. we were later asked to send the result to docs room, so that they can prepare the letter and doc will sign, kami duduk kejap

the damage

then nurse tu passed the result mine and adlie, bg ni kat pej agama, jangan bukak pulak envelope ni, yelah cik misi, yahuu boleh kawen sudah, and terus i asked the misi to do cbc test for thalasemia, shes like err err err.. then i insist to do it masa tu gak, bila lagi kot kan, takde masa, cbc test is a complete blood count test..
the tools

in kk they wont do thalasemia test, no appropriate tools available to do one, so they will just perform for you complete blood count test, where from the test ada count for red blood cell, white blood cell, platlet segala so on so fourth and paling penting hemoglobin and mean volume in which will determine whether u could possibly positive with thalasemia.. mcm count for white blood pulak indicate whether u have leukemia, so via cbc boleh tau atleast anything went wrong with you..

the sacrifice

so then nak test kenela poke my arm for a tube of blood pulak..so pegi balik the previous room, amik darah byk2, dah amik darah pegi bagi kat lab, maka the lab pun memprocess..
the makmal

like 10 minute he gave me one sheet with numbers for blood count, so sendiri tgk nampak sihat je aku cakap sama adlie, cewah.. sebok nk tgk hgb n mean vol je sebenarnya, suspen kot kan, semua mcm agak ok, fall under safe side, hemo shouldnt count below than 10, so mine is 14.5g/dl.. but ada but, normal hemo n red blood count mayb a silent carrier of one.. so camne kan.. silalah pergi check ye kawan kawan, penting ini..

the cbc test result

masuk lagi jumpa doc, the doktor u see very the busy, so aku berdiri okay dengar dia cite, satu je dia cakap, u normal, dah dah boleh blah sekarang, menyemak je aku tgk ko ni.. hehe.. tak dia kata u normal, blood count okey sume, u shouldnt worry la, if something unusual ill write to a referal letter to do the extended test.. cos in response if the hgb if its below than 10 they will refer u straight to gh, so aku pun oklah, tak puas ati tanya, so does my partner need to do one? pasal aku je kan yg kena buat, hehe.. kata gila darah.. tak payah if one is ok, then the other one have an option not to do, so alhamdulillah semua okay.. atleast via cbc i am quite sure of my current health.. tak rugi pun bayar rm1 je kan..

so the uncertainty ended there, sumpah aku penah nak buat thalasemia test kat damai, 250 kot, but ofcos tu extended test kot kan, ni just cbc je, so we are done with hiv test and cbc test, oh ya saya je buat cbc adlie takmo.. dia sedikit kejam! oh ye, lupe disclaimer : hiv test cbc test info whatsoever ni accordingly as i am no medical expert.. hehe, sila jangan maki saya..

everything is good there at klinik kesihatan setapak, they dont ask where u stay permanently i mean ur house la at the first place so i assume those who are not from kl pun boleh buat.. kalau mahu buat just pick up a phone please call the clinic u wanna visit first, if they require u to do apt, u do one, if they want u to do walk in apt, do walk in apt, if they ask u to simply walk in for the test, do come early, atleast 15 minutes before..

both test took 1 hour to finish, if only hiv test around 35 mins plus minus sebab busy kot kk tu, then we went makan, fuh i went there poking some blood without breakfast without lunch.. bagus kan..

the makanans

butterlyminiour hiv test are valid until 17th of august, 2 weeks after nikah.. advance okay..